For American men serious about finding a wife abroad, AFA romance tours offer a structured, effective, and exciting path to meeting a lifelong partner. This guide provides a comprehensive look at how these tours work, what to expect, and what you need to consider before you go. We’ll also give you an exclusive look at A Foreign Affair’s groundbreaking, first-ever tour to Japan—a perfect example of a once-in-a-lifetime matchmaking opportunity.
Featured Event: AFA’s First-Ever Japan Romance Tour!
This exclusive dating tour is limited to just 16 men to ensure a personalized experience. Read on for details and reserve your spot before it’s too late!
This is an exclusive speed dating experience unlike any we have hosted before, designed for men who are serious about meeting intelligent, beautiful, and marriage-minded Japanese women. You will have a truly personalized and meaningful opportunity to connect, with a 1:1 ratio of men to women at each social.
AFA Japan Tour Packages & Itinerary (2025)
| Tour Package | Dates | Cost |
|---|---|---|
| Tokyo, Japan Tour | November 7th – November 13th | $3995 |
| Tokyo, Japan / Shenzhen, China Combo | November 7th – November 19th | $6895 |
| Date | Activity / Itinerary |
|---|---|
| Friday, Nov 7 | Arrival in Tokyo (before 3:00 PM). Later, a Welcome Pub Crawl to meet locals and foreigners. |
| Saturday, Nov 8 | Morning breakfast, followed by the first Speed Dating Event in the afternoon. Evening is open for dating. |
| Sunday, Nov 9 | Morning breakfast, followed by the second Speed Dating Event. Evening is open for dating. |
| Monday, Nov 10 | Tokyo City Tour in the morning, followed by a romantic Dinner Cruise in the evening. |
| Tuesday, Nov 11 | Optional Tokyo Exploration during the day. Evening is free for private dates. |
| Wednesday, Nov 12 | Optional Tokyo Exploration during the day. Evening is free for private dates. |
| Thursday, Nov 13 | Breakfast followed by departure by Noon. (Dual-tour clients transfer to Shenzhen). |
The AFA Tour Experience: An In-Depth Look
The Socials: How They Work
The cornerstone of AFA romance tours is the large social dating events. These are invitation-only gatherings held in upscale venues, where you and the other tour clients will be introduced to dozens of pre-screened local women. These women have all expressed a genuine interest in meeting a foreign partner. The atmosphere is relaxed and professional, with translators on hand to ensure conversation flows smoothly, allowing you to focus on making a connection. You can learn more about how these work in our guide to social dating events.
How Much Does an AFA Singles Tour to Asia Cost?
The cost of a tour varies depending on the destination and the length of the trip. As shown with the Japan tour, a 7-day tour costs approximately $3995, while a longer 13-day combo tour can be around $6895. This fee typically covers your accommodations, the professionally organized social events, airport pickup, and other guided activities listed in the itinerary. The main costs not included are your international airfare and personal spending money for private dates. For a full breakdown, see our article on romance tour costs.
Are Romance Tours a Reliable Way to Find a Japanese Wife?
Yes, for men who are serious, they are one of the most reliable methods. AFA tours solve the biggest challenges of international dating: access and introduction. Instead of spending months online with uncertain results, a tour places you in direct, face-to-face contact with women who are actively seeking a partner. The structured events eliminate the awkwardness of cold approaches and provide a safe, efficient environment to gauge chemistry and build real connections.
What to Consider in 2025 Before You Go on Asian Marriage Tours
A successful romance tour begins with proper preparation. Before you book your trip, it’s important to consider the following:
Your Intentions:
Cultural Research: Every country is different. Take time to learn about the culture, traditions, and values of the women you hope to meet. Our guide to Filipino culture is a great place to start.
Financial Planning: Look beyond the tour fee. Budget for your round-trip airfare, personal expenses, and the costs of private dates (dinners, activities, etc.).
Safety and Awareness: While tours are safe, it’s always wise to be prepared. Read up on our romance tour safety guide for best practices.
Explore Other AFA Tour Destinations
While the new Japan tour is an exciting opportunity, AFA offers tours to many other countries, each with its own unique culture and beautiful women. You can choose to meet and date women in the following countries:
- Asia:Philippines,China,Thailand
- Latin America: Colombia, Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Peru
- Eastern Europe: Ukraine
Are AFA Asian Romance Tours Your Way to Real Love?
For the right man, the answer is a definitive yes. AFA romance tours provide the single most effective platform for meeting a foreign partner by focusing on what truly matters: face-to-face interaction. They are an investment in your future happiness, offering a direct path to real, lasting connections. Many have found success, as you can see in our love stories.
Frequently Asked Questions About AFA Romance Tours
What is a romance tour?
A romance tour is a guided travel experience organized by a matchmaking company, like A Foreign Affair (AFA), designed to help single men meet multiple potential partners in a foreign country through structured social events.
Are AFA romance tours only for finding a wife?
While most men on these tours are marriage-minded, the primary goal is to make meaningful, long-term connections. Many participants are seeking a serious relationship that could lead to marriage.
How do the social events work?
AFA hosts large social events where you can meet dozens of pre-screened local women who are interested in meeting foreign men. Translators are available to help facilitate conversations in a relaxed, comfortable setting.
Can I meet women individually, or only in groups?
The tours include large group social events, but you are highly encouraged to arrange individual dates with the women you connect with. The evenings on the itinerary are often left open specifically for these private dates.
What is the typical age range of the women I will meet?
The age range of women can vary by country and event. However, you can generally expect the women to be younger than the male clients. The Japan tour, for example, notes an average age difference of 5-10 years.
Is airfare included in the tour price?
No, airfare is not included in the tour package price. Clients are responsible for booking their own international flights to and from the destination city.
What is included in the tour fee?
Tour packages generally include hotel accommodations, daily breakfast, airport pickup, professionally organized social events with translators, and specific excursions like a city tour or dinner cruise as detailed in the itinerary.
Are the women on the tour screened?
Yes, reputable tour companies like AFA screen the women who attend the social events to ensure they are single and genuinely interested in meeting a foreign partner for a serious relationship.
What if I can’t travel on the group tour dates?
If you cannot make the group tour dates, AFA also offers individual club tours. These allow you to travel on your own schedule and meet women one-on-one, with the agency still handling the introductions.
What countries does AFA offer tours to?
AFA offers romance tours to various regions around the world, including Asia (like the Philippines, China, and Japan), Latin America (like Colombia), and other destinations.
Reserve Your Spot on the AFA Japan Romance Tour!
With only 3 spots available for this exclusive dating event, time is running out. Place your refundable deposit today to secure your chance to meet incredible Japanese women in Tokyo.
